Comments on: More than friends?

By: Gogol

Gogol — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 17:07:45 +0000

This sounds like something I experienced in college, most likely Someone else in your group has the hots for you too, which would explain the increased sexual flirtation in front of them. He is marking his territory! Listen to The Guys, they are giving you great advice!

By: Judie

Judie — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 21:50:53 +0000

I really pissed in my chili the last time I weighed in on one of these questions, so I am keeping my opinions to myself this time!!

By: fatima Da

fatima Da — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 18:28:36 +0000

Like DateGirl would say the Guys are spot on too… so go girl ! and Good luck

By: Date Girl

Date Girl — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 16:21:27 +0000

The Guys are always spot on in their advice. I say go for it!

By: Anne

Anne — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 14:32:05 +0000

I think the guys are right, it sounds like he is into you. Of course, making the first move can be much harder than it sounds. Good luck to you whatever you decide.

By: Kelly

Kelly — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 03:41:36 +0000

To Kayla, I would say he’s definitely feeling you out with his innuendos, flirting and touching. It’s like The Guys said before, in so many words, that men, like women, don’t like risk having their hearts broken so they do these little tests with flirting and sometimes light touching to see how their potential date will respond. The fact that he’s sexing it up a bit more around the other guys isn’t too surprising, but it is a little nauseating. At least it would be to me if I were a woman, I suppose. Some guys do that kind of thing. I never have in my “single years” but that’s just me.

Anyway, the advice of The Guys is, once again, sound. The direct approach from you will likely be the only way you’ll get a real answer about his intentions. I suspect he wants to be more than friends by the way he’s acting.

By: Elisa

Elisa — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 20:31:53 +0000

That, or carry a tennis racket around with you. When he starts up just boink him.

By: askcherlock

askcherlock — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 20:21:04 +0000

Yep, he’s definitely into you. Learn how to receive signals and reciprocate if you are interested. Guys have insecurities too, you know!

By: bluzdude

bluzdude — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 12:54:35 +0000

I agree with the Guys. He’s into you. He just needs a green light.

Now, next time he starts acting all flirty with you, lean into his ear and tell him to put up or shut up. Then look into his eyes. Maybe raise an eyebrow.

You should see your answer.