Is he cheating on me?

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Dear Guys,

My boyfriend and I last had sex January 2019. He has been wanting sex from me but we were not getting along. Finally, we had sex again this past week. Before we started he said, “Omg I’m not sure if I remember how to do this. It’s been so long. lol” Anyway, the sex was not that good and he did not finish. (He actually faked it!!!) I find this very strange because I would think that this would not be an issue after not having sex since January. So I have my suspicions he is having sex with someone else. What do you think.?


Dear Brytt,

We understand your concern. It’s possible that you are correct and that he is having sex with someone else. However, before you go down that road, you might want to consider some other possibilities.

  1. Nerves: Since he said he wasn’t sure if he remembered how to do things, it’s possible he was nervous. Not necessarily about the sex, but about the reconnection and what it all meant. Sure, this is typically something a woman might think about, but depending on the details of your issues, this is certainly a plausible explanation.
  2. Masturbation: If you haven’t been having sex since January, it’s quite likely that he’s doing what he needs to do. And if he’s doing this quite frequently, this could certainly affect his ability to finish, especially if he masturbated the same day you had sex. (Remember, he probably was surprised you were having sex.)
  3. Other Factors: Alcohol. Age. Time of Day. There are a myriad of other factors, but we just don’t have enough information to go through them all.

So where do you go from here? Well, have you thought about talking with him? That certainly would be a good place to start. It seems like your relationship might benefit from some open and honest dialogue. What do you think?


2 Comments on Is he cheating on me?

  1. Hi guys, I left you a 5 star review! Not sure what name it shows under but I used my own account (Sarah).

  2. @Sarah…..We’re just seeing this now. Sorry about the delay. So let’s do this. Since we missed this and you already paid for a Private Question we’ll just extend your conversation. Or give you a credit for follow-up questions beyond what we normally do. Does that work for you? And thank you for the nice review!!!

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