I Told Him to Let Me Go

Dear Guys,

So, here I am almost eight yrs later, on & off w/ a guy that never committed as my bf! I’m not gonna get into the details of it all, but recently I had a weak moment and allowed him to come over to my place after keeping him at arms length for last three months. I immediately regretted it after we saw each other, so I contemplated my next step, which I knew I was gonna make.

We have had the conversation about where we are a few times over the years, so I knew I didn’t wanna reiterate anything like that again. I didn’t want a reaction from him cause I knew I was finally putting myself first and his feelings didn’t matter at this point. Not that I was mad at him; I was mad at myself for not having higher expectations and knowing I am worth more than what he ever gave or showed me. This is what I text him and I immediately blocked him cause I didn’t wanna see his reply if any:

“Just read this & hear me sweetie! I shouldn’t have allowed today to happen! I can’t do this anymore with you, its too hard! Let’s just take a break for a while & if we’re meant to be friends we’ll come back together & it won’t be hard in any way for me. Please respect this & let me go!”

I know I will see this clearly in a few days and know I did the right thing, but I just need to get objective guys’ opinions here…thanks in advance for honest advice!

Alex

Dear Alex,

We’re going to keep this short and sweet. We agree with everything you’ve said and done. And we applaud you for being the strong one here. Of course, now comes the more difficult part. Staying strong, and sticking with your plan. (Be prepared for him to try and break you down.) NOTE: We also don’t see a friendship in your future. You need to make a clean break and stick to it.

You know Alex, we understand that every person is different and that we’re all on our own journey of self-discovery. Maybe you’re wondering why it took you eight years for you to figure things out, but we urge you not to berate yourself. (You may have saved yourself time down the road.) More importantly, you’ve come to the point where you realize that you deserve more than what this guy is able to give you. We’re just glad that you’re seeing things more clearly and realizing that he’s not going to change.

We hope our feedback helps. Let us know if you have other questions. Leave your comments and/or questions in the comments section below.

Take care,

THE GUYS

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2 Comments on I Told Him to Let Me Go

  1. Thank you guys for your honest response! I had given myself a “last straw” moment when he couldn’t even show up to my bday celebration last month. That was such a huge eye opener & I knew I was done then. I was never a priority to him, he never saw a committed relationship w/ me, he could’ve allowed this to go on indefinitely. It’s been a week since I sent that last text & good news is that he hasn’t tried to reach out. I will heal from this, learn from it & be that woman I’m meant to be for that special guy God has planned to place in my life.

  2. @Alex…….We’re glad you’re seeing it clearly. Stay strong! And feel free to reach out again if you ever need some advice. Take care.

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