Hook Up or More?
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Talking Dirty During Sex
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Why would he tell me about his cheating?
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My Colleague Used Me For Sex
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I slept with my best friend
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Boyfriend has ED, but on Dating Site
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How do I define my relationship?
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I discovered that my fiancé is bisexual; now what?
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Why does my guy need a man cave? Please explain!
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Will my Friends with Benefits come back?
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I’m one of three girls; did I mean anything to him?
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Friends with Benefits or more; I’m afraid to ask
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How do you know if he’s interested in more than sex?
Dear Ladies, This seems to be the universal question, especially with Friends with Benefits, Hooking Up, F-Buddies, becoming [...]
Have you dated this guy?
Picking a life partner is not easy. You have your list of criteria and most people don’t make the cut. On the flip side, [...]
Will a threesome save our relationship?
Dear Guys, My guy and I are taking a break after one-and-a-half years together due to me constantly having insecurity [...]
Friends with Benefits: 10 Things Women Should Know
Ten Points about FWB (Friends with Benefits) Women Should Know -FWB arrangements rarely evolve into something more serious. [...]
Masturbation, Politics and Relationships
Misbehavior does not follow party lines. It’s not a Republican issue or a Democrat issue. In fact, over the years, [...]
She Doesn’t Exist
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How Guys Compartmentalize Women
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Intimacy and Sex: Context is Everything
An Excerpt from our upcoming e-book….. Let’s start with a hypothetical question: What’s it called when your [...]
Does he like me or just want sex?
Dear Guys, When a guy tells you he doesn’t want a relationship but then tries to have sex with you, is it just because [...]
Guys, got questions? Ask us. We’ve got answers!
Hey Guys, We want to remind all of you that, although we primarily answer questions from women, we’re also here for [...]
Why isn’t he making a move?
Hey Guys! I’m needing an honest opinion or answer from a guy’s point of view. I matched this guy on match dot [...]
Makeup vs No Makeup
(Picture of Covergirl, Janelle. covergirl.com) Dear Guys, I know men tend to say they prefer no makeup over too much makeup, [...]
Getting no affection from boyfriend
Read more Relationship Advice and Dating Advice on affection and sex Dear Guys, I have been with my partner for five years [...]
Is this love or lust?
Dear Guys, I had to find somewhere else to live quickly about a few months ago. After I posted an ad for roomshare, this guy [...]
Husband Watching Porn at Work
Hello Fellas, I have a serious question that I am so very scared to ask my husband about. I recently learned that my husband [...]
How to help my boyfriend understand my physical needs
Dear Guys, My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years now. (We met when I was 19 and him 25.) Apart from [...]
How can I keep him from falling for me?
Dear Guys, I’m a 34 year-old woman, busy making my life work, and recently separated. Found a guy for a booty call. [...]
New woman, new relationship, new sex
New woman, new relationship, new sex. For most guys, the unfamiliar is an incredible high, like a powerful drug, one that [...]
Is he still turned on by me?
Hello Guys, So I feel my question is a little silly but I’m genuinely curious. I’ll give you a little background [...]
Does he want a nanny with benefits?
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He was on online hook up sites; should I take him back?
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Do guys get sensitive after they finish?
Dear Guys, What does it mean when you have a lot to drink and have sex for awhile and then when you get off to finish him [...]
He came back, but he’s not asking me out
Hi Guys, Ok, so here’s my situation. There’s this guy I really like. We went on a few dates and I really liked [...]
Should I give him another chance?
Dear Guys, Hi , I’m 30 and have a 35 year old boyfriend who cheated on me about five years ago. We broke up then, and [...]
How can I get this guy to stop following me around?
Dear Guys, I am having an issue with a guy following me around. (I’m somewhat recognizable, as I’ve been in a [...]
Does he want more than just a FWB?
Dear Guys, Let me give the basic information. I’m a voluptuous woman and he is a man that religiously goes to the gym. So [...]
Did I have sex with him too soon?
Hey Guys, So I just recently got out of a year-long relationship with a guy who was completely emotionally unavailable. I [...]
Am I his personal booty call?
Dear Guys, I apologize in advance for this being long. I’m not usually the relationship type and I typically [...]
Dating my ex’s brother; bad idea?
Dear Guys, This guy and I text often, but I’ve only spoken to him on the phone once and seen him once. He says he [...]
Is this guy playing me?
Dear Guys, I fell for a guy who’s been cheated on. He tends to push people away I believe. We met at a party and we [...]
Will he break up with her for me?
Dear Guys, There is this guy who I was in love when I was 16. (I´m 23 now). I went to live abroad for a year when I was 17, [...]
How do I stop my serial cheating?
Dear Guys, I am 26 and a serial cheater. I have never been faithful to anyone. At times have even been with three guys who [...]
Did he break up because I pressured him?
Dear Guys, My question/situation is as follows. I met this guy (34) and we had been dating for a year. We took our time to [...]
Am I his backup plan?
Dear Guys, I’ve known this guy for almost a year now. Ever since we met we clicked. We have hung out a few times and [...]
Dating my ex’s friend: Is there a line that men won’t cross?
Dear Guys, I have mixed feelings about how to proceed with a guy I like. (Or if I should at all) This guy and I have mutual [...]
I want to sleep with my boss; should I say something to him? (Sex Advice)
Hey Guys, So I’m not usually a very forward person, but I’m about to change schools and I’ve had a huge [...]
How do I get guys to be more platonic? (Sex Advice)
Dear Guys, Generally, males put me on a pedestal and try to seduce me; but those very same males can be relaxed and platonic [...]
Do “older” guys like casual sex? (Sex Advice)
Hello Guys, I am not sure how old any of you are but I’m just wondering if older men (50+) would still want/appreciate [...]
Am I being used? (Sex Advice)
Dear Guys, So I’ve been seeing this guy for the past two months after we met online. We have a TON in common and even [...]
Good sex vs. Bad sex vs. No sex (What guys want and don’t want) Sex Advice
Dear Readers, We recently received a question from a young woman who was worried about whether or not she was good in bed. [...]
He wants more than friends with benefits
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Will having sex make him fall for me? (Sex Advice)
Dear Guys, For about a month I have been talking to this guy who is 21; he just recently came home from overseas deployment [...]
I want sex more than him (Sex Advice)
Hey Guys, Thanks for reading. I just have a few questions and I think you guys can probably help me. I’m a young woman [...]
He’s evasive when I ask him questions about his past; why? (Relationship and Sex Advice)
Hi Guys, My question is, why does my fiancé get so squirrelly if I ask him a question about his exes? I only know about his [...]
My hubby loves my sweaty body (Sex Advice)
Hey Guys, My hubby loves how I smell—everywhere on my body—after I work out. I personally would love to take a shower [...]
Mutual friends; sex and other issues (Relationship and Dating Advice)
Hey Guys! So I seem to have found myself in a really messy situation in the past few days. I have four really awesome [...]
We have great sex; so why doesn’t he want to be my boyfriend? (Sex Advice)
Dear Guys, I could really do with a male perspective right now. I’ve been seeing this guy for a few weeks now and [...]
I love him, but what if that isn’t enough?
Hi Guys, I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year-and-a-half now. I love him so much and I’d do anything for him! [...]
One night stand; Is there potential for a relationship? (Sex Advice)
Dear Guys, I’m a college student and I recently met this very cute guy who is a friend of a friend. A few weeks after [...]
Can you guys explain men and masturbation?
Dear Guys, Can you explain men and masturbation to me? I am at a loss. My boyfriend and I have incredible sex, however, [...]
My cyber-sex relationship; will this go anywhere? (Sex Advice)
Hi Guys, I met a guy on a dating site and we talk on the phone and text every day. At least once or twice a week we video [...]
He’s sketchy with his internet use
Hello Guys, My boyfriend of a year now still has an issue with closing out of a window when I walk into a room. It really [...]
Sex Advice: When do you know if you’re ready to lose your virginity?
Dear Guys, I’m still a virgin (in high school) and I’m starting to get really close to this one guy. We [...]
Relationship and Dating Advice: I need more from my husband
Hey Guys, I’ve been married 10 plus years, so you would think by now that I’ve got my husband figured out. [...]
Relationship and Dating Advice: My boyfriend is checking out other men on craigslist
Dear Guys, I have been with my boyfriend (I’m a girl) for several years. When I met him I knew he had fetishes but I [...]
Sex Advice: Do guys always expect sex when dating?
Hey Guys, I come from a country where premarital sex is a big no-no, and therefore I have to be a virgin before I get [...]
The mystery of guys’ feelings; how do you know when a guy wants more?
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He cheated; should I break up with him?
Hey Guys, My boyfriend and I will be together officially two years in October. But we have had a lot of ups and downs [...]
He cheated; and he had sex while we were broken up
Dear Guys, I’ll try to make this short and sweet. I’m in a 4-5 year long distant relationship with a guy [...]
Why do guys call when they’re drunk?
Dear Guys, Simple enough question, simple enough answer right? I’m expecting the answer to be along the lines of [...]
I hooked up with another guy while married
Hi Guys! I’ve been happily married for almost twenty years. On a business trip a few months ago, I met a guy at a bar [...]
He joked about a threesome
Dear Guys, A guy friend texted me this: “Would u beg to have sex with me and my friend( a guy)?” So I pissed and [...]
Is a guy able to be in a relationship with one woman without getting bored or without cheating?
Dear Guys, I am a girl who is afraid to “put my guard down.” Even though you guys really say men are simple, [...]
He cheated with his ex-wife; and I’m pregnant
Dear Guys, So this is a complicated long message. Five years ago I began a relationship with my partner who was married at [...]
I’m with my ex-husband’s best friend; but he’s into S & M
Dear Guys, This could take forever. It’s a soap opera. To help get to the point, a short background. I am with my [...]
My guy had trouble getting aroused; is there something wrong with me?
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How do you move a relationship from online fantasy to reality?
Hey Guys, A little background. I have been married to a guy for ten years and we separated last year. He was an athlete and [...]
I’m not comfortable with having sex
Dear Guys, Ive been dating this guy for about a month and he has asked me to be his girlfriend a few times. The reason I [...]
I slept with my virgin friend; bad decision, and now I feel badly
Hey Guys, Yeah I’m a guy and this is stupid but I have a lot in my mind and can’t seem to think of a good [...]
My boyfriend wants to watch porn together
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I don’t want to cheat on my Prince Charming
Hey Guys, I was raised in a very conservative family and was taught that one ought to save themselves for marriage. I grew [...]
Am I twisted?
Dear Guys, The guy I’m seeing, sleeping with, basically we’ve been doing whatever lately for the past month. [...]
Friends with Benefits with my boss?
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Sex Addict: I feel like I’m not enough for my boyfriend
Dear Guys, I feel like my 32 year old boyfriend is obsessed with sex, naked women, and porn. He stares (not looks!) at other [...]
Is my marriage over?
Dear Guys, I am in need of some advice. My husband and I have been together for 5 years, married for almost 2 years. But we [...]
Cheating when drinking; can he change?
Hi Guys, My partner of four years recently left me; he ran away without leaving a note or anything. He had been drinking [...]
Women and Sex
“Women and Sex” by Isabel Kane Women want sex as much or more than men do. Yes, I know I am spitting in the [...]
Private Talk
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