Dating a new man; is he a keeper or not?

I have been dating this new man for three weeks now and he is really lovely. We get on really well, but he keeps joking that he doesn't like me that much, and says things like, "You are okay I suppose." But then he says flirty things about my friend like, "I hope she is going to wear that white dress she had on last time." His comments are making me feel that he is not that attracted to me, but he has been so nice taking me out a lot and spending loads of time with me. I'm confused. We have not slept together as I am going to leave that for a bit longer. Please can you advise me. "Amand

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  1. This guy sounds retarded…or very insecure…possibly bad history of being accused of being “the nice guy” with too much rejection from women or falling into the “friend zone” over and over.

    Bottom line … Not that “bright” and RUDE. Think about it…who does that?! Who says those things?
    Maybe deep down he IS a good guy…but do you want someone who is that outwardly mean…or so insecure that he would project every ounce of it onto YOU with complete disregard for YOUR feelings? Selfish of him.
    Even if he’s nice at times…don’t let that cancel out his horrible statements.
    If it were me I would 1. Run or 2. Call him out 3. Both

    Ps: I accidentally clicked the wrong box when voting. Stupid iPhone. I vote “he is a jerk”

    Pss: I’m truly sorry you are going through this. I know it’s hard to make a decision when there’s a huge battle in your head. Just from reading the little you wrote you sound like a lovely woman. Don’t forget..”.go with your gut.” Our female intuition is a gift. Don’t ignore it:) Keep us posted and listen to whatever advice “the guys” tell you. I have and they are brilliant! to you:)

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