4 Comments on My boyfriend used my debit card; what should I do?

  1. Guy of interest only communicates by text. We have yet to go out on a date since I gave him my # about a month ago. However, he has requested sex. He says that he is very busy and that is the reason why we haven’t spent any time together and that he is only available at night. He says the weekends he has his kids. He also mentioned that he is afraid of being hurt. He works full-time and is also a coach and he does actually have a busy schedule. Do you think I’m being played or should I go with the flow?

  2. @April…..We hate to pass judgement when we don’t know someone personally, but there are some red-flags here. 1. He’s requesting sex, but isn’t trying to take you out on dates. 2. Says he is afraid of getting hurt. (That’s usually just an excuse, especially if he’s telling you this before you’ve even gone out, or worse telling you this while he’s requesting sex.) We’re not going to tell you what to do, but if you do decide to go with the flow, then please Proceed with Caution. Thoughts?

  3. @OOTG….He does seem to act a little awkward around me as if he may be afraid of rejection. The sex talk may be his ego booster. I have been very cautious, just wanted some male insight. He seems like a good dude, but difficult to read. I’ve gotten impatient, but want to give him the benefit of the doubt.

  4. @April……Well, you’re a better judge of his character than we are; we were just sharing our reactions to what you wrote. Definitely keep us posted. And ask as many follow-up questions as you’d like. ps. We hope you’ll share our site with all of your friends. Follow us on Twitter: @TGPBuzz. And take a moment to VOTE on our Ask our Audience page. (Help a fellow reader out.)

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