I was wondering if you could help me out. Obviously being yourself is vital but the idea of at least looking and somewhat acting the part can’t hurt.
What is it that guys find attractive in regards to appearance? Like hair, face, body, everything.
Furthermore, what do guys find attractive in regards to personality? Like mannerisms, gestures etc.
What would be the perfect woman?
Well, this is just about the most loaded question we’ve ever received. Not that we mind. Just that, we’re going to have a difficult time giving you an answer that you’re going to be satisfied with.
Perfect woman? Is there such a thing?
As you might imagine, you ask 100 guys this question and you’ll likely get 100 different answers. That goes for personality and for appearance.
Some guys like outgoing women, some like shy women, some like funny women, smart women, demure women, aggressive women, the list goes on.
Same with appearance. Leggy. Petite. Busty. Slender. Tall. Short. Curvy. Athletic. Guys like it all.
So what are you actually asking? Are you trying to shape yourself in a certain way for a particular guy?
Here’s the best answer we can give you:
Be yourself. But, take care of yourself. Be committed to learning, growing, evolving as an individual. Work with your partner to evolve together.
There’s a little saying we learned along the way. Eventually everyone meets in the middle as long as there’s love and self-awareness.”
Cryptic? We’ll explain.
A guy might have a certain type of woman he desires. And let’s say he convinces her he’s worthy. For a time he’ll keep her up on a pedestal, but eventually he’ll realize she’s human and that she also comes with certain blemishes. The hope is he’ll learn to love those blemishes, and even though she’s no longer up on the pedestal, he’ll love her even more because he now he loves the person she actually is, rather than his ideal of her.
The other scenario.
A guy meets a woman, and loves the person she is. Maybe he thinks she’s cute, but he doesn’t put her up on the pedestal the way he does with the other scenario. But eventually, his love for her makes him more and more attracted to her, and she slowly ends up at a similar place of attractiveness as the other woman.
So stop worrying. If you have to work hard to keep a guy’s attention, he’s probably not the right guy for you. If you have specific questions about a specific question, leave them below in the comments section and we’ll answer those.
All the best,
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