Does he like me or just want sex?

Dear Guys,

When a guy tells you he doesn’t want a relationship but then tries to have sex with you, is it just because he wants sex or does he actually like you but still doesn’t want a realtionship?

Rose

Dear Rose,

Good question. We can understand why you might be confused. Guys are able to compartmentalize sex and love. He might behave similarly if he’s in love or he just wants sex, but his intentions are not the same.

If your guy tells you he doesn’t want a relationship with you but then tries to have sex with you, then all he wants is sex. And that is unlikely to change. Meaning, guys pretty much know right away what sort of potential they see in a woman. It’s rare for a guy to go from not being interested in a relationship to wanting a relationship even if this sex is amazing.

A few other important points. When a guy wants sex he’ll do or say anything to get laid. In fact, he may even stick around to cuddle afterwards, but that’s in order to confuse you just enough so you’ll be open to having sex the next time he wants it. Most likely in the interim, you won’t hear from him much.

Hope this helps.

THE GUYS

ps. We hope you’ll let your friends know about us. Thanks!

1 Comment on Does he like me or just want sex?

  1. @Kathrinej…….What do you think? What’s your gut telling you? Honestly, we’re not buying his reason. Maybe he has anxiety, maybe he doesn’t, but that doesn’t seem a reason to break up with someone. What we think he’s saying is: I want all the perks of a relationship—sex—but don’t want to deal with the rest.

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