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I like your personality

Dear Guys,

Not to be vain, but I’m a pretty girl…not big on the whole pound of make-up and constantly picture perfect thing, but it seems like every guy I’m interested in always says the same thing first…they like my style, or they like my personality…
I always thought that if a guy says that he’s not genuinely interested, just attracted enough to screw…any way, my question is, what does it mean when a guy right off the bat says “I really like your personality…”

Craigory

Dear Craigory,

Thanks for your question.

This statement, “I like your personality,” is not the kiss of death that women think it is. Context is everything here. Most guys aren’t going to come right out and tell you you’re beautiful, or that they want to get you in bed, so they might say, “I really like your personality.” That’s a safe way to approach you. It’s all part of the game.

It is possible they actually do like your style. Maybe you have a certain flair that’s undeniable, and one that guys notice right away. That’s a good thing! Wouldn’t you prefer they liked you for a combination of traits rather than just your looks? So be happy that you have much to offer.

However, when guys talk to their buddies it’s a whole different story. Every stereotype you’ve ever heard about guys is true in this case. We want to know about looks first. Is she hot? Is she cute? How’s her body? We want specifics. It’s just a curiosity thing. That doesn’t mean we don’t care about other qualities in women, it’s just that our prehistoric roots enter the equation when we talk amongst ourselves.

Finally, the most important thing is to be true to yourself. Don’t change, or act differently just to get a guy to like you. Celebrate your uniqueness, pursue the things that make you happy. Your happiness and zest for life will shine through. And truly those are the most attractive qualities anyone can have.

All the best.

THE GUYS

5 Comments on I like your personality

  1. I think its ESSENTIAL for a guy to say ““I really like your personality” because I DONT want him after me just for my looks!

  2. I agree with Meleah. The fact that you are attractive, and guys really like your personality, makes for a double whammy! We all know the fatal blind date line, “has a great personality.”
    These guys aren’t blind, and know you have a great personality. What more can a woman want??

  3. Great advice Guys!

  4. As always great advice Guys!!

  5. I definitely think it’s a compliment. If they didn’t like your personality, they certainly wouldn’t be interested. I think it’s says – potential for MORE than just chemistry – a deeper friendship and maybe bring home to mom type of future.

    🙂

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